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Should domestic violence victims be held accountable for what the children go though?

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Domestic violence is a very taboo subject and I'm sure this log post will annoy the femenists amongst you all, but I can't get my head around how women can allow it to happen in front of and to their children!

I can understand how hard it must be, and easy to take if it's just yourself to worry about....but the kids, for the love of god do it for the kids! The effects of domestic violence on children are heartbreaking.

I happened upon this post via Facebook this morning...

 

 Now I'm going to ask all who support to please share this and get this viral on what a vile piece of crap this thing is, he beat me, strangled me while pregnant, kicked me to the floor after a c-section, broke my foot twice which ive needed surgery to correct, he beat my son alfie up so badly alfie he was terrified of all men including my dad, my other other son blake was a baby n he used to chuck him round in his baby bouncer n he Wud leave both boys to starve or be in soiled nappies for hours to Play on the Xbox, in the end i stopped leaving him alone with my sons!! He is A vile person and I was told I was lucky to get me and my boys out alive, I was told he put his own mom in hop n his ex wife in hop n her 6 month old baby with black eyes!! I'm tired of sitting back n letting him get ppl to spy on me so I'm asking you please please share this so we can warm other woman of who he is and what he is like!! Let's get this viral PLZ!!!

 

Lisa Maria Couchman

"Now I'm going to ask all who support to please share this and get this viral on what a vile piece of crap this thing is, he beat me, strangled me while pregnant, kicked me to the floor after a c-section, broke my foot twice which ive needed surgery to correct, he beat my son alfie up so badly alfie he was terrified of all men including my dad, my other other son blake was a baby n he used to chuck him round in his baby bouncer n he Wud leave both boys to starve or be in soiled nappies for hours to Play on the Xbox, in the end i stopped leaving him alone with my sons!! He is A vile person and I was told I was lucky to get me and my boys out alive, I was told he put his own mom in hop n his ex wife in hop n her 6 month old baby with black eyes!! I'm tired of sitting back n letting him get ppl to spy on me so I'm asking you please please share this so we can warm other woman of who he is and what he is like!! Let's get this viral PLZ!!!"

Now normally I would be the first to jump on the bandwagon about what an utter beast he is, and how he should be strung up by his pecker, covered in honey and eaten alive by ants. 

But.....what struck me about this story was the level of violence directed at the children.   Now, 99% of you won't agree with me but surely the mother HAS to take some responsibility for this?

I'm pretty sure someone would have told her about him beating up his mother, his ex-wife and giving a 6 month old black eyes BEFORE she decided to let him loose on her own kids.

People love to talk and after doing that to his ex-wife and baby, the gossip would have been rife around the town, he would have definitely had his access revoked to his first child that he assaulted at the age of 6 months old. 

This sequence of sick events didn't happen in one day, so why were those poor boys ever left with the beast?  She chillingly states that "in the end I stopped leaving him alone with my boys"....Jesus Christ woman, why would you EVER have left him alone.

I totally understand that these women get brainwashed and their self esteem is at ground zero and more importantly that they're scared, but where's that motherly instinct....why doesn't it kick in the very first time an abuser takes it from you and directs it towards your precious children.  Taking abuse yourself and allowing it to happen to your children are two different things!

Surely getting strangled whilst pregnant would ring alarm bells, and show you the guy was never going to win any father of the year awards...

No matter how scared you are, you're the adult.  Your children rely on YOU to protect them.  You wouldn't ask a known pedophile to babysit so why would you let a violent child abuser live in your home?

I know I'm a strong woman but I just don't get it, if any man had "badly beaten" one of my precious babies I would be currently residing at HMP for the foreseeable future. There would never be another incident.

MissRantALot

 

 

 

 

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